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Author: Ann Weiser Cornell

Blog | Inner Peace for Challenging Times | Inner Critic

When You Think You’re No Good

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 5, 2019July 9, 2024

One giant obstacle to feeling inwardly peaceful and good about yourself is an inner critic that seems to think you need to…

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Do your guts twist up with shame when you make a mistake, even a very innocent one? Read on...
Inner Critic | Blog | Tips

Focusing Tip #683 – “I made a mistake and now I feel my guts turning around”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 4, 2019July 10, 2024

Do your guts twist up with shame when you make a mistake, even a very innocent one? Read on… Ada writes: As…

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Do you get triggered when you are with your family because it is so clear THEY are triggered?
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Focusing Tip #682 – “I don’t know how not to merge with my hurt parts when I am with my family.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 27, 2019July 31, 2024

Do you get triggered when you are with your family because it is so clear THEY are triggered? Read on… A Reader…

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Blog | Inner Peace for Challenging Times

When You’re Scared to Fail

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 21, 2019August 13, 2024

Do you ever experience the kind of anxiety that can really stop you in your tracks? A lot of us get anxious…

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Having empathy for parts
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Focusing Tip #681 – “I get stuck in feeling the pain of the part.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 20, 2019August 1, 2024

What’s the difference between feeling compassion for a hurt part of us, and being stuck in the hurt itself? Read on… Charles…

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When You Feel Needy

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 7, 2019July 29, 2024

What shakes up your sense of inner peace? Have you noticed how sometimes things change, and not for the better? We’re bound…

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inner peace for challenging times
Blog | Inner Peace for Challenging Times

When Stress Makes You Snap

ByAnn Weiser Cornell April 25, 2019July 9, 2024

Sometimes seems like, when we don’t have inner peace, it’s our closest relationships that suffer the most. And then we suffer! And that…

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When we can be with what we feel instead of being caught up iin the feelings, the part of us that has the feelings now has company
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If you’re triggered by what people say, and you know it’s from your own past, what do you do?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell February 4, 2019July 9, 2024

If you’re triggered by what people say, and you know it’s from your own past, what do you do? So you’re aware…

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Focusing Tip #513 – “My parents interpreted a good majority of what I had to tell them as ‘complaining’.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 8, 2016July 30, 2024

If you got shut down in the past for complaining too much, how can you make sure you’re not complaining too much…

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Focusing Tip #512 – “Impulsive in actions and words, arrogant, touchy, boastful… Can anything be done to influence such people?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 1, 2016July 24, 2024

Do you know someone who is arrogant, touchy, mocking, boastful, and defensive? Is there any way to influence such a person? A…

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