Focusing Tip #941 – How we change by not trying to change
What do people mean when they say, ‘Don’t try to change’? Read on… A Reader writes: My question is not really a…
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Focusing Tip #940 – When a family member has a terminal illness
What if you are full of feelings about a family member’s illness and pain? Read on… A Reader writes: My adult son…
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Focusing Tip #922 – Parts Work – “Do I do what my parts tell me to do?”
What does it mean to “listen to” your parts? Read on… A Reader writes: I have heard that Focusing is a time…
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Focusing Tip #902 – Parts – “It doesn’t always feel like just something in me”
Does it sometimes not feel true to say “it’s something in me”? Read on… Angela writes: The other day I was starting…
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Focusing Tip #894 – Can you weep as Self-in-Presence?
Is it possible to weep and still be Self-in-Presence? Read on… Joyce writes: During a Focusing session with a companion this week,…
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Focusing Tip #892 – Focusing Partnership – “I feel the same feelings as my partner”
Do you find yourself feeling the feelings of the other person? Read on… Alison writes: When I am Focusing, I often seem…
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Focusing Tip #884 – Relationships – “People in my family don’t listen to me”
“I don’t know what to do with my sadness and frustration about not being seen and heard.” A Reader writes: People in…
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Focusing Tip #420 – Going From a Story to a Felt Sense
“My clients don’t seem to have any felt senses. They talk a lot about their stories….” Lena writes:I have been reading your…
