December 29 2009 – Tip #209
"Do we ignore spirit's messages?"~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Roy writes: "I love Focusing, and feel very strongly that a fully embodied presence is key to…
December 22 2009 – Tip #208
Holiday Moody Blues and Joys~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I had a lovely day this past Sunday with family and dear friends. It was a holiday…
December 15 2009 – Tip #207
"What are all those images?"~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Yarden writes: "A woman did a Focusing session with me, and had many images, but, as she…
December 8 2009 – Tip #206
"Is there such a thing as too much use of the word 'something'?"~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ David writes: "I am coming to a good understanding…
December 1 2009 – Tip #205
Thanks to all of you who responded to the "killing the baby" posts. Here is what one of you said: "Thank you…
November 24 2009 – Tip #204
Protecting the person by killing the "baby"~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Last week I answered a question about self-destructive thoughts, especially the type where something inside…
November 17 2009 – Tip #203
"It was not possible for me to be kind to my self-destructive thoughts"~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Nina writes: "Last night I was experiencing several thoughts…
November 10 2009 – Getting Unblocked #35
"My first psychologist's reaction to my emotions is blocking me now" ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Miriam writes: "First I saw a cognitive psychologist and now…
November 3 2009 – Tip #202
A Different Way of Being Together~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ In 1984 Gene Gendlin wrote an article called "The Politics of Giving Therapy Away." Most of…
October 27 2009 – Getting Unblocked #34
When something unfortunate happens–like an important computer file disappearing–what do you do? Do you panic? Call yourself stupid and worse? Give up?…
