Focusing Tip #755 – “I can’t accept this emotionally abusive part of me.”
Do you have an emotionally abusive part in you that you don’t want to accept? Read on… Susie writes: I have recently…
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Focusing Tip #684 – “I am feeling my mother’s hopelessness – it’s not mine”
What can you do if the feeling you are experiencing is someone else’s feeling, not your own? Read on… Gudrun writes: When…
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Focusing Tip #646 – “My stepmother was a rage-aholic”
Do you get taken over by intense feelings of rage that remind you of a raging parent or step-parent? Read on… Marianne…
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Focusing Tip #627 – When your trauma gets triggered by current events
Are you suffering PTSD symptoms just from watching the news? Read on… Susanna writes: What’s going on this past week, with the…
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Focusing Tip #615 – “I feel difficult emotions, but not a felt sense…”
What can you do when an old childhood-trauma-based issue has been triggered? Read on… Paul writes: Focusing is challenging for me. It…
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Focusing Tip #611 – What is the effect of childhood emotional wounds on your life today?
Janet writes: Can our Self-in-Presence be wounded? Is that why we have developed parts that feel they need to protect/defend/hide from us?…
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Focusing Tip #601 – I find it frightening to try to sense the dissociating part in my body.
A Reader writes: I just realized that I dissociate. I can’t control it when it happens. It, whatever in me takes over…
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Focusing Tip #593 – “I cannot understand why there’s still a traumatized vulnerable child within me…”
If you were traumatized by someone, why doesn’t the hurt and anger heal when that person starts treating you better? A Reader…
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Focusing Tip #577 -When early childhood trauma gets triggered
If you’re triggered by what people say, and you know it’s from your own past, what do you do? Sally writes: I’m…
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Focusing Tip #538 – Do you get into a dead end with trying to bring change in old repetitive traumas?
“Around that original trauma there seems to have developed a kaleidoscope of reactive feelings…” A few months ago Leslie wrote: I seem…
