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“There are no enemies inside you. Everything in you is trying to save your life.”
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Focusing Tip #811 – “There are no enemies inside.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell September 7, 2022July 16, 2024

What is Inner Relationship Focusing and where did it come from? Read on… Dear Reader: Fifty years ago, in the fall of…

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Focusing Tip #810 - "This part seems to hate me"
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Focusing Tip #810 – “This part seems to hate me”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell August 31, 2022July 31, 2024

What can you do if a part of you attacks you viciously for making a mistake? Read on… A Reader writes: A…

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“When you say 'you are the one who will take the needed actions' -- what do you mean by 'you'?”
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Focusing Tip #809 – Who is the “you” who can say Hello to your parts?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell August 24, 2022July 31, 2024

Who is the “you” who can say Hello to your parts? Read on… Jeff writes: Thank you for Tip #808! It’s REALLY…

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“I think of this like a child who refuses to go to school.
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Focusing Tip #808 – When a part doesn’t get moving even after being heard

ByAnn Weiser Cornell August 10, 2022July 10, 2024

Is it over-indulgence to keep listening to a part that never seems to move? Read on… A Reader writes: Can we reach…

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“I wish I could let my strong feelings go and get on with life.”
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Focusing Tip #807 – “I wish I could let my feelings go and get on with life.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell August 3, 2022July 9, 2024

What can you do with strong feelings that seem to be in your way? Read on… Helen writes: I get strong feelings…

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“I work with someone who feels deeply that she is a unified whole, and doesn't relate to parts language.”
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Focusing Tip #806 – Focusing works even without Parts

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 27, 2022July 29, 2024

Can we do Inner Relationship Focusing without talking about parts? Read on… Grace writes: I work with someone who doesn’t like to…

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“I am wondering about naming our 'recurring characters' or finding an image for them.”
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Focusing Tip #805 – “Can we name our Parts?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 20, 2022August 7, 2024

Does it help to name our parts if we meet them again and again? Read on… Amanda writes: I really liked your…

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“It doesn’t feel good to me to call parts of myself things.”
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Focusing Tip #804 – What about saying “part of me”?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 13, 2022August 1, 2024

Focusing Tip #804 – What about saying “part of me”? When does “part of me” work better than “something in me”? Read…

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It's not something in me. All of me is angry!
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Focusing Tip #803 – Not everyone likes to say “something in me”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 6, 2022August 26, 2024

What do you do when someone doesn’t want to say “something in me”? Read on… A Reader writes: A friend of mine…

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As a human being, I share the same fears
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Focusing Tip #802 – Focusing with climate fears

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 29, 2022August 7, 2024

How do we help someone do Focusing with legitimate fears, like about climate change? Read on… Krisztina writes: My questions concerns climate…

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