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Focusing Tip #871 – “I don’t want to feel my anger”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 20, 2023October 7, 2024

What do you do when even saying Hello doesn’t make anger go away? Read on… Liz writes: So, something triggers anger. Could…

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Focusing Tip #870 – “I’m jealous of my therapist’s other clients”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 13, 2023October 3, 2024

Do you have attachment issues coming up in the therapy relationship? Read on… Mindy writes: I am in therapy. One challenging issue…

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Focusing Tip #869 – “I don’t know what my emotions are.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 6, 2023October 3, 2024

Is it hard to know how you feel? Read on… Georgia writes: My problem is I don’t know what I feel. I…

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Focusing Tip #868 – Can’t Feel Anything – “I’m waiting for something to show up”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 29, 2023October 2, 2024

What if you want to be feeling something, and nothing comes? Read on… A Reader writes: I’m taking my first Focusing class…

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Focusing Tip #867 – Inner Critics – “I am always afraid what people will think about me”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 15, 2023October 1, 2024

What can you do with doubting yourself and comparing yourself to others? Read on… Uzzie writes: I always doubt on my abilities…

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Focusing Tip #866 – “All I can do is cry”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 8, 2023October 1, 2024

Are you too much for your Focusing partner if all you can do is cry? Read on… A Reader writes: I struggle…

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Focusing Tip #865 – Focusing + Intrusive Thoughts – “When I try to do Focusing alone my mind wanders”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 1, 2023September 12, 2024

How can you make Focusing alone as effective as Focusing with a partner? Read on… A Reader writes: I read your recent…

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Focusing Tip #864 – Physical Pain and Strong Emotions – “I’m in pain and my emotions are overwhelming”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 25, 2023September 12, 2024

What if you have to stay immobile and your emotions are overwhelming? Read on… Gloria writes: I had a small accident, and…

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"It almost seems like I cannot process or perceive my words at the same time as I speak them."
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Focusing Tip #863 – Focusing Process – “Why does having a Focusing partner help so much?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 18, 2023September 12, 2024

What does having a Focusing Companion add to our process? Read on… Nicole writes: Why does it land so differently when my…

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"What does the Focusing process looks like when you don’t use ‘something in me’ or parts language?"
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Focusing Tip #862 – Grief and Parts – “How do we Focus differently with grieving?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 11, 2023July 9, 2024

How do you accompany your own grief if “grief” is not a part? Read on… Mary writes: I am in the process…

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