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“I’m not actually genuinely feeling compassionate towards myself...”
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Focusing Tip #831 – “I’m not feeling compassion toward myself”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell February 15, 2023July 9, 2024

What if the feeling of compassion toward yourself seems to be missing? Read on… Bernie writes: I’ve noticed that I’m saying the…

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“When I go into describing a feeling, I often lose contact with it...”
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Focusing Tip #830 – “What if my felt senses disappear?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell February 8, 2023July 9, 2024

What if your feelings disappear when you try to describe them? Read on… Hans-Jörg writes: For me it is sometimes difficult to…

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“There is this huge wanting to not have hurt someone, even if it was unintentional....”
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Focusing Tip #829 – When you regret how you couldn’t show up in the past

ByAnn Weiser Cornell February 1, 2023July 9, 2024

Are you filled with regret about how you behaved in the past? Read on… Matthias writes: When I make a step forward…

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“As this occurred some 60 years ago there is no one left to ask what happened...”
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Focusing Tip #828 – Working with repressed trauma with no memories

ByAnn Weiser Cornell January 18, 2023July 9, 2024

Can you work with repressed trauma if you have no memory of what happened? Read on… Andrew writes: I have become aware…

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“I told some of my relatives over the holidays that I am interested in Focusing...”
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Focusing Tip #827 – “Is Focusing self-centered and self-absorbed?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell January 11, 2023July 9, 2024

Are you self-centered and self-absorbed if you spend time listening to your feelings? Read on… A Reader writes: I told some of…

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“I'm curious about how to get past that initial resistance...”
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Focusing Tip #826 – “How do I get past the initial resistance?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell January 4, 2023July 9, 2024

What if you are inviting someone to pause and feel, and they don’t want to? Read on… Alan asks: I keep returning…

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“The parts themselves are either hiding, or I’m completely merged with them...”
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Focusing Tip #825 – “It’s hard to become aware of my parts”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 28, 2022July 9, 2024

Do you have a hard time becoming aware of your parts? Read on… A Reader asks: I can only notice that parts…

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“I just get tightness in my jaw and a sense of urgency, like something in me is saying, 'There isn't time for this!'”
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Focusing Tip #824 – “I don’t have time to sense what’s right for me”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 14, 2022July 9, 2024

Does it feel like you don’t have time to sense what is really right for you? Read on… A Reader asks: I’m just…

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“Is this Focusing style of understanding something that can be applied to relationships with others?”
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Focusing Tip #823 – Using Focusing skills with other people in relationship

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 7, 2022July 9, 2024

Can Focusing skills be applied to how we treat other people? Read on… Stephanie writes: In my own Focusing, I will have…

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“I’ve listened to what this part is trying to say and it feels like a massive block...”
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Focusing Tip #822 – “This part says I’m sure to fail”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 30, 2022July 16, 2024

Is something in you telling you that you don’t have what it takes? Read on… Jackie writes: I’ve been wanting to study…

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