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Connecting with physical symptoms
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Focusing Tip #582 – Are your physical symptoms something to get rid of, or something to connect with and listen to?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 25, 2017August 5, 2024

Kim writes: I am currently working with a nutritional coach to help me with some digestive issues. In addition to nutritional approaches,…

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Worried parts
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Focusing Tip #576 – “I reassured the part that it could relax but…”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell September 13, 2017September 19, 2024

Merilyn writes: Recently I had to mind my 10 month old granddaughter for the whole night, and because she wouldn’t settle in…

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What do you do when parts of you are talking?
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Focusing Tip #567 – What do you do when the different parts of you are talking to each other and getting nowhere?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 12, 2017July 9, 2024

“An example would be a part of me that feels anxious, and another part that is angry at it for being anxious….”…

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Focusing to shift social anxiety
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Focusing Tip #563 – Focusing to shift social anxiety – Ann’s story

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 7, 2017July 11, 2024

What do you do when you long to just be yourself but you don’t trust that anyone will like you? Dear Readers:I…

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Focusing Tip #555 – What can you do when feelings of anxiety are compounded by feelings of hating to feel that way?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell April 12, 2017July 9, 2024

“Not wanting to feel the anxiety usually makes it increase in intensity…” Monica writes: Anxiety seems to always be present in my…

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Focusing Tip #554 – Does it work best to speak TO the various inner parts of you, or ABOUT them?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell April 6, 2017July 31, 2024

“At times I feel confused about how this language works…” Nancy writes: I think one of the most helpful aspects of Inner…

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Focusing Tip #551 – “I am wondering if doing too much Focusing will make those parts resistant to change.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell March 15, 2017September 24, 2024

Could trying to do too much Focusing create resistance to change? Bhavani writes: If an issue seems stuck, how often should one…

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Focusing Tip #536 – How can you use your felt sense to come up with goals that are congruent with yourself?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 23, 2016August 13, 2024

“I’d like to know more about how to use Focusing on goal setting and achieving…” Bhavani writes: I’d like to know more…

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Focusing Tip #532 – When old memories trigger difficult feelings…

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 26, 2016July 16, 2024

When difficult feelings are triggered bringing up old memories, what do you do with the part of you that doesn’t want to…

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Focusing Tip #478 -“What if I feel guilty for feeling good?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell September 2, 2015August 26, 2024

“I feel guilt and shame for everything I accomplish and for feeling good, relaxed, and taking care of myself.” Maria writes: I have…

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      • Live, Online Courses
      • On-Demand Courses
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