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Sometimes I get the impulse to eat even though I'm not hungry.
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Focusing Tip #761 – “Sometimes I get the impulse to eat even though I’m not hungry.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 20, 2021August 21, 2024

If you’ve got a part that wants to over-indulge and another part criticizing you, what can you do? Read on… Agnes writes:…

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Being truly relaxed in my body would be too good to be true
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Focusing Tip #760 – “Maybe being truly relaxed is too good to be true.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 14, 2021August 21, 2024

When your stressful feelings don’t change, is it ever because change itself is scary? Read on… Maria writes: I’ve been Focusing for…

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What can we do with our natural sadness about being distant from those we love?
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Focusing Tip #759 – “If I can overcome my sadness, then I can feel calm”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 7, 2021July 30, 2024

What can we do with our natural sadness about being distant from those we love? Read on… Antonio writes: My adult son…

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What if you pick up on the other person's mood and their stressful feelings stress you?
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Focusing Tip #758 – “My adult daughter offloads on me…”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 23, 2021July 29, 2024

What if you pick up on the other person’s mood and their stressful feelings stress you? Read on… Katelynn writes: My adult…

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“How can I focus on my own one when I'm in a more reactive or disassociated state?”
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Focusing Tip #757 – Focusing when reactive or dissociated

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 16, 2021July 17, 2024

Merging with parts, including parts that dissociate us from feelings, can be challenging. What can we do? Read on… Janine writes: I…

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I don't know if this physical sensation is a felt sense.
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Focusing Tip #756 – “I don’t know if this physical sensation is a felt sense.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 9, 2021August 27, 2024

Do you get confused by not knowing where your body sensations come from? Read on… Margriet writes: Sometimes I get a bit…

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Focusing Tip Abusive Stepmother
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Focusing Tip #755 – “I can’t accept this emotionally abusive part of me.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 2, 2021July 9, 2024

Do you have an emotionally abusive part in you that you don’t want to accept? Read on… Susie writes: I have recently…

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“When I'm Focusing and I don't sense any felt sense, I feel like giving up....”
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Focusing Tip #754 – “How can I get a felt sense when I don’t have one?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell May 26, 2021July 10, 2024

What can you do if you don’t find any feelings… yet you know they are in there somewhere? Read on…. Edward writes:…

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Focusing Tip When it is too much, I stop the experience in order not to re-traumatize.
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Focusing Tip #753 – Focusing when the feelings are “too much”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell May 19, 2021July 9, 2024

What can you do when your feelings are so intense that they scare you… and it feels like even feeling them is…

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Pain Trauma Focusing Tip
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Focusing Tip #752 – “My traumatic hospital stay”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell May 12, 2021July 16, 2024

Can sensitive and empathic awareness help with the physical pain of activation? Read on… A Reader writes: Recently I had to stay…

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