Focusing Tip #821 – To the part that resists being thankful… you’re welcome too
What if you don’t feel like being grateful on the day when everyone is supposed to feel grateful? Read on… Dear Readers:…
Focusing Tip #820 – “I retreat into my head and distract myself”
When you try to slow down and listen to yourself, do you distract yourself instead? Read on… Devin writes: My issue with…
Focusing Tip #819 – “Do I need training in Psychology?”
Is exchanging Focusing partnership the same as doing psychotherapy? Read on… Suzanna writes: I’m studying Psychology. My question is: to be a…
Focusing Tip #818 – “Will I ever get to do the things I’ve dreamed of?”
Are you tired of being patient with the parts that block your forward living? Read on… A Reader asked: I know I’m…
Focusing Tip #817 – “When I check a word, who am I checking with?”
When you check with your body, what are you actually checking with? Read on… Several people asked: In Focusing class I am…
Focusing Tip #816 – “Can I write a letter to my worried part?”
When you have a worried part, how can you tell it that you have heard its worries? Read on… AJ writes: Yesterday…
Focusing Tip #815 – “I have a part that’s angry and a part angry at that part”
Angry parts, parts angry at the angry parts, what do you do with them all? Read on… Cori writes: I have something…
Focusing Tip #814 – “Do I speak up or say nothing?”
How do you decide? Read on… Chantall writes: How do you handle the annoyance of an upstairs neighbor who walks too loud?…
Focusing Tip #813 – How do I stop doing my unhealthy habit?
If you wish you didn’t indulge so much, what can you do when it happens? Read on… A Reader writes: Last week you…
Focusing Tip #812 – “I’m still engaging in self-sabotage”
What if understanding that your parts are protecting you hasn’t helped you change? Read on… A Reader writes: I have been doing IFS…
