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Relationships: A Relationship-Positive Way to Take a Break and Regroup When Tempers Flare

ByAnn Weiser Cornell April 20, 2023July 9, 2024

(Text from the images above) It’s okay to take a moment in a stressful situation with another person. And, what you do…

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Relationships: What We Can Learn From Our Criticisms of Others

ByAnn Weiser Cornell April 11, 2023July 9, 2024

Our criticisms of others can be a deep well of self-understanding and change. Especially in our close relationships. Here is someone you…

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“I told some of my relatives over the holidays that I am interested in Focusing...”
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Focusing Tip #827 – “Is Focusing self-centered and self-absorbed?”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell January 11, 2023July 9, 2024

Are you self-centered and self-absorbed if you spend time listening to your feelings? Read on… A Reader writes: I told some of…

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“Is this Focusing style of understanding something that can be applied to relationships with others?”
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Focusing Tip #823 – Using Focusing skills with other people in relationship

ByAnn Weiser Cornell December 7, 2022July 9, 2024

Can Focusing skills be applied to how we treat other people? Read on… Stephanie writes: In my own Focusing, I will have…

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Blame people for this
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Focusing Tip #762 – “I blame other people for the mess we’re in”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell July 28, 2021August 1, 2024

Do you find yourself caught in thinking that other people are causing your problems? Read on… A Reader writes: Things were getting…

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What if you pick up on the other person's mood and their stressful feelings stress you?
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Focusing Tip #758 – “My adult daughter offloads on me…”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell June 23, 2021July 29, 2024

What if you pick up on the other person’s mood and their stressful feelings stress you? Read on… Katelynn writes: My adult…

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I can't get over my partner's having kids with another woman.
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Focusing Tip #687 – “I can’t get over my partner’s having kids with another woman.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell January 15, 2020July 9, 2024

If you’re tormented by feelings about your partner’s past and other relationships, what can you do? Read on… a note For New…

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What can you do when the feelings are missing that you know would naturally be there? Read on...
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Focusing Tip #650 – Focusing with lack of attraction

ByAnn Weiser Cornell March 27, 2019August 6, 2024

What can you do when the feelings are missing that you know would naturally be there? Read on… Tom writes: My love…

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Focusing Tip #600 – What does it mean to be a “person with a person”?
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Focusing Tip #600 – What does it mean to be a “person with a person”?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell March 14, 2018July 9, 2024

“What does it mean to be a ‘person with a person’ in Focusing, and in daily life?” Tina writes: I felt very…

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Focusing Tip #468 – How Does Vulnerability Relate to Intimacy?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell April 22, 2015October 23, 2024

“Life and relationships go better as we make room for our human vulnerability, not shut it down.” Dear Readers:Today, I’d like to…

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