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Year: 2019

When we can be with what we feel instead of being caught up iin the feelings, the part of us that has the feelings now has company
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If you’re triggered by what people say, and you know it’s from your own past, what do you do?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell February 4, 2019July 9, 2024

If you’re triggered by what people say, and you know it’s from your own past, what do you do? So you’re aware…

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“When I do Focusing, sometimes I find a lot of pain... and it stays for a long time...”
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Fousing Tip #680 – “When Focusing, sometimes I just find a lot of pain.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell November 6, 2019July 16, 2024

What’s going on when you experience nothing but pain? Read on… Gudrun writes: When I do Focusing, sometimes I find a lot of pain….

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“So much time wasted on wrong men, feeling angry at our bosses, ... dieting, feeling shame...”
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Focusing Tip #679 – “I’ve wasted my life so far, all that energy and nothing to show for it.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 30, 2019July 15, 2024

Do you feel the deep frustration of having wasted too much of your life on wrong relationships, anger, and shame? Read on……

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“Every Focusing session I do reinforces this feeling of being trapped and having to find a way to 'get out of this.'”
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Focusing Tip #678 – “I feel trapped and desperate

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 23, 2019July 17, 2024

Do you feel like your current life offers you no good choices? Read on… Mia writes: I feel very trapped in my…

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“It feels like a really difficult struggle to accept my shadow parts as truly lovable.”
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Focusing Tip #677 – “Parts of me are truly unlovable.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 16, 2019July 16, 2024

Do you find it impossible to love the parts of you that have done hurtful and irresponsible things? Read on… Jim writes:…

Read More Focusing Tip #677 – “Parts of me are truly unlovable.”Continue

“I know I have to change my profession or at least the work I do. But facing that change is scary.”
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Focusing Tip #676 – “I have to get out of my job but I really need the money”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 9, 2019August 6, 2024

What if you know you have to change your life but you don’t know what to change it to? Read on… A…

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Focusing Tip #675 – “I’m scared if I do Focusing I’ll have to change my life completely.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell October 2, 2019July 17, 2024

Do you ever worry that if you focus on your feelings, you will have to change your life? Read on… Ada writes:…

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“Some people look for input and guidance from their inner child self...”
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Focusing Tip #674 – What’s the difference between guidance from an inner child vs. a felt sense?

ByAnn Weiser Cornell September 25, 2019July 17, 2024

Is your inner child the best advisor for your life decisions? Read on… John writes: Some people in the groups I work…

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Focusing Tip #673 - "I tend to be seduced by this part that loves sleeping and eating and not exercising."
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Focusing Tip #673 – “I tend to be seduced by this part that loves sleeping and eating and not exercising.”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell September 18, 2019August 28, 2024

Can we get real permanent change? Or are we doomed to always backslide and relapse? Read on… Jael writes: I was wondering…

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“Something in me feels helpless and defeated. Something in me feels trapped...”
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Focusing Tip #672 – “I am so tired of the war inside”

ByAnn Weiser Cornell September 11, 2019July 17, 2024

Are you tired of the eternal war between the controlling part and the rebellious part? Read on… Erin writes: I am so…

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      Your Path to Lasting Change
      The Inner Relationship Focusing Training Program
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      Getting Free:
      A Year of Untangling
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      • On-Demand Courses
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