Focusing Tip #601 – I find it frightening to try to sense the dissociating part in my body.
A Reader writes: I just realized that I dissociate. I can’t control it when it happens. It, whatever in me takes over…
Focusing Tip #600 – What does it mean to be a “person with a person”?
“What does it mean to be a ‘person with a person’ in Focusing, and in daily life?” Tina writes: I felt very…
Focusing Tip #599 – How can you discover the unconscious beliefs that may be limiting what is possible for you?
Jackie writes: I really appreciated the Tip last week about changing core beliefs. My question is: what power do unconscious or subconscious…
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Focusing Tip #598 – If you have a negative core belief about yourself, how can you change it?
Jim writes: Can (and how can) focusing be used to change core beliefs? Do I turn to the belief and say (for…
Focusing Tip #597 – How do you move from gentle empathic listening to energized action?
“The problem is, when I stop Focusing and go on doing my daily activities, I am still partially in that quiet state,…
Focusing Tip #596 – How do you feel when people talk about love?
“When everyone is talking about love it can awaken something in us that feels deeply alone… and that can be painful.” Dear…
Focusing Tip #595 – “Avoiding conflict is a core aspect of who I am…”
Are you so strongly identified with something that you’d be lying to say it’s just part of you? Bruce writes: This morning…
Focusing Tip #594 – “What good are my parts? They make my life miserable.”
Focusing involves spending time with different parts of you. But do those parts have value? Bhavani writes: After a year of experience…
Focusing Tip #593 – “I cannot understand why there’s still a traumatized vulnerable child within me…”
If you were traumatized by someone, why doesn’t the hurt and anger heal when that person starts treating you better? A Reader…
Focusing Tip #592 – Do you ever wonder why trying to fix yourself doesn’t work?
Michelle writes: I have been operating under the idea that I would recognize a shift from Focusing by having “a solution” to…
